You can’t slide these dying eyes

Dad was dying and I was ready. I was ready to close his eyes. It was my turn to get this right.

Why I’m a Digital ideaist

Why I’m a Digital ideaist

At work, I’m a coder, project leader, dreamer, realist, pragmatist, strategist. Call me a digital ideaist.

Watch your world, like a tide, retreat and slide away

Watch your world, like a tide, retreat and slide away

Pop passed in the 9 o’clock hour. In the morning. It was a Friday. And he left half past the hour.

Tomorrow and today

I woke up this morning at 5:30 aware I was on the cusp of two days: March 31 and April 1. The end of one fiscal quarter, the start of…

Three ghosts meet a fool in a bar

Three ghosts meet a fool in a bar

My father was dying in the hospital. At the bar, three ghosts changed how I approached his death.

Three (free) writing tools to engage digital readers

Three (free) writing tools to engage digital readers

Is reading your content the best part of a user's day? Does it make you smile?

The damn eulogy

The damn eulogy

An American success story.. You’d think he was blessed. That he was lucky.

Taking a long way home

Taking a long way home

Seems like a year ago I went to New York to bury Pop. It’s been 2 weeks.

Riding with Tommy Bourne

Riding with Tommy Bourne

With the confidence of a lone lion, I shift with the stick in my wrong hand whilst sitting in the wrong car seat and driving on the wrong side of…

Riding with the talking dead

Riding with the talking dead

The Pop I would conjure in my passenger seat is about 47 years old: Confounded by lingering misery. He was by himself.

Punctuation is like a carrot

Punctuation is like a carrot

When do punctuation marks stay inside the quote marks? Always. Imagine you're planting a vegetable garden.

Present simple messages simply

Present simple messages simply

The best way to display simple messages, is simply. In Sunday’s Washington Post is an article on how Metro is trying to get its train drivers to stop at red lights.…

My baby just wrote me a letter

For Christmas, my son wrote me a letter recognizing my difficult year. Keith wrote it with his therapist, who helped edit from three pages to one. Perhaps it was a…

Lest we forget

For Christmas, my son wrote me a letter chronicling my past year. He wrote about my dad’s death, grieving at Disney World, his coming out and his pushing me away…

Jo’burg

First, you get a paper cup. Soft-peddle your chatter. Don’t explain, just beg.

Going through Pop’s drawers

Going through Pop’s drawers

As I’m going through my Dad’s papers, I’m telling myself he deliberately left what he left.

Conflicting priorities

Conflicting priorities

I thought this was an interesting paradox: one construction project trumping another construction project. Though both projects yield a permanent product, management prioritized the structure. Prospective mothers will hopefully be…

Commas are like a choo-choo train

Commas are like a choo-choo train

When's the right time to use - and not use - a comma in a series in a sentence?

Catch a wave and you’re sitting on top of the world

Catch a wave and you’re sitting on top of the world

See why these fair-skinned people dress in full-length wet suits to surf an an ocean that’s always in winter.

Bill Simmons, in his prime

I’ve talked about Bill Simmons in glowing light. He’s a long-winded, online friend to many of us. Like that college friend, you haven’t seen in a decade, you still know him and…

A play performed in another way can be so sweet

A play performed in another way can be so sweet

I just saw a play within a film on a movie screen. Maybe you’ve heard of it: Macbeth?

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